Packing up Day

So I drove John to the bus after a huge fight over breakfast- I got rid of everything he wanted to eat it seems...But he's at school and he will come home to a house filled with boxes.

I met with the packers and then brought Laura to a friend's house.  Come home and my basement is almost all packed up and to one side.  WOW!!!    They are pretty quick.  They will leave me the beds so I will be able to sleep here with the kids tonight instead of driving over 1 hour in the morning to get here after i drop the kids off at another friend's place.  Thank god i have great friends that can take them! :)  I am so lucky to have made so many good friends here in Tillsonburg (and area!!)

I probably won't post for a couple days until we are settled at grandma and papa's place.  But there is movement at this area to say the least.

WOW

So last night was the last load of laundry i did in this "old" house. The guy came to fix it up for the move. Tonight is quite possibly our last night here and I am getting quite excited

My friend invited us over for lunch.  She came over from Japan.  She made me a cheesecake and had a note saying " Thank you For becoming my first friend in CANADA"  That is the first time I really felt we are going, and got all chocked up.

Tomorrow the movers will be here to pack up between 8 and 9 am-  I sure hope i have everything packed that i need for the 3 weeks- if not oh well there are stores!!! i was panicking cause i couldn't find my camera- John handed it to me about 2 minutes ago.  He hid it....I lost the TV remote- i hope he knows where it is! lol

I did my part

So I finally finished packing my suitcase and backpack- I did it..i managed to get clothes in there for the 3 of us.  I do have an extra suitcase that i put the Christmas gift we are giving away in and their snow pants.  (It's not a huge one like the one i had for the kids and I)  But I did it!!

Matt and his dad got to Moose Jaw last night- I am guessing there was no problem at the border-  The booze is now in Canada.....all 30 bottles of wine and the other stuff too!  Today is the last day i can do laundry as my washer will be out of commission as of tomorrow....OH DARN!! lol 

Yesterday the kids and I skyped with my mom, aunt, grandma and cousin and her bf.  John was hilarious trying to read us a story but we couldn't stop laughing- BE WARNED- I packed the book so you might get read to in Sudbury!!! HAHAHAHAHA

When I told the kids to say bye- Laura actually said it.....and again today at playgroup and last night to daddy on the phone!!  it sounds more like BUUUUUUHHHH... but it's great!!! same sound every time she says it!!! 

John woke me up 2 minutes before the alarm went off to get him up--- BONUS!!  But as he was eating breakfast he tells me " mommy i have to miss school!"  I answered "no you don't your fine you didn't hurt yourself like last week- you are going to school mister:"  "but mommy I can't go to school- i have the hiccups..."  So he misses one day last week and now he doesn't want to go?  He loves school once he's there.  The teacher told Matt that John has a perma smile and it doesn't go away. 

He sure will miss his friends that he's made at school.  I was laughing because up until we left for Alberta, all he talked about was BUTTS.  Because he learnt it from a friend at school.  Butt this butt that...My turkey has a butt, a circle butt- but my friend he but a rectangle but on his turkey (it was a craft they made at thanksgiving with school)  And by the way girls don't have butts, just boys.....I tried to correct him on that but decided he'll learn. lol

Night 3 tonight with no hubby- It's not as bad as I thought- the kids have been amazing.  Tomorrow we are going for lunch at my friends house. I can't wait to see her, her belly and her daughter.

Day 1 with Matt gone :(  He stopped in Wisconsin Dells last night to sleep that's 1000 km down 3000 moreish to go! 

We had a sleep over with my friend's daughter- my neighbour's daugther was here for a while too.  We had dinner and watched Cars 2.  Then i tried to put them all to sleep downstairs (not my neighbours daughter) failed miserably cause my daugther kept getting John angry.  She was laughing the whole time doing it.

Since it was pretty late when they all got to sleep after i put them all in separate rooms, John had to go for a nap today.  He told me he WASN'T napping.  Well i go in his room 2 minutes later and he's snoring away.  He was moody he was tired and its raining out..so why not!! He has school tomorrow- he just loves school.

Laura was a clown again this morning making us all laugh. 

Oh yesterday i was sad that Matt left- John and I cuddled to watch TV while Laura was napping and he tells me- mommy I am going to marry Savannah and you.  I told him he couldn't marry me he looked so heart broken.  I still marry you mommy.

I'm sorry I didn't post anything yesterday it was a busy day- I babysat my friend's kids till 4:30 and we left right away to go to a birthday party at an ice rink- then had to go to the lawyers to sell this house and picked up the kids at the in-laws came home- helped Matt finished his packing and cried and went to bed.

It's here the day Matt and his dad leave.  As someone commented watch out for those Canadians in the States who went black Friday shopping!!!  I am pretty emotional today...boo.  Cried a couple times already. 

Well on a good note- John is having a sleep-over with his wife to be tonight.  I figured it's one of our last nights here- lets make it fun.  I think we will all sleep in the basement- I will set up the playpen for little miss and the kids can sleep on the little couches.  We will rent a movie and probably pick up something to eat as i hate to cook lately. 

I am sure the 2 of them talking will have me laughing pretty hard.  They usually have a couple great lines when we do get together.   4 or 5 more sleeps at this house!!  If the movers pack up the beds and all the TVs i will be going to sleep at my in-laws and we will be moved in- However if they leave me the beds and 1 TV i will stay here with the kids for the last night.  So we will see.  When we moved out of Waterford, they did keep the beds and TVs intact- however it was weird having NOTHING else to do...I had told Matt to stay at his parents cause there was literally nothing but boxes to look at!

John and Matt are playing Lego's downstairs.  Laura is going back and forth from mommy and daddy.  John is paranoid every time Matt goes outside that he left without saying bye.  Matt reassured him that he will say bye when he does leave for Alberta with Papa.

I hope they have good weather the whole way and that they travel safe.

It's getting Real!

So Matt gave me the address and phone number to the new place.  I forwarded it to some of you- if you do want it just email me or msg on facebook.

Matt finished packing the truck and his clothes and everything.....he's leaving Saturday at noon....I will be with the kids till Wednesday or Thursday then we move in with the Dale's.  I am so happy I am not alone for the 3 weeks.

I am doing great with the packing for the clothes- I have room to finish my clothes in the 1 suitcase!! I am going to be a pro at this soon. 

So Tuesday we are getting the appliance guy in to put in the things needed to hold the front loader washing machine drum during the move.  and whatever else he needs to do. 

I am anxious to get the phone call from Matt saying he's there safe and sound in Alberta, hopefully at his Aunt and Uncles.   I am so thankful for his dad, who is going with Matt so he doesn't have to do the drive alone.  Let's all cross our fingers that he does not have to unload anything at the border as he is crossing through the states (Saves lots of time for them in the long run...i guess not if he's stuck in customs!!)

Going to babysit tomorrow a friend's kids, then we are going to a birthday party at the arena- I borrowed some skates for little Miss...i can't wait to see her on the ice- because the last time we went with John she was SOOOOOOOO angry that she could not go on.  And after the party the kids are going to go to grandma and papa's while mommy and daddy go sign papers with the Lawyer to finalize the sale of our house.

What a day What a day

So yesterday, John to me was a little monster- i know it didn't help that we didn't go out.  So I put them in the tub at 6:30 figuring they could play for 30-45 minutes.  John has this bad habit of wanting to be the first to do things- last night it was the first to get out of the tub.  So i got him out and dried him off- had his PJ ready to put on him.  Off he goes running.  Downstairs.  I was like OK- when he comes up i will catch him cause i can't leave little miss alone in the tub.  I hear crying.  Take little miss out of the tub and go downstairs to see what's wrong - Get to the toy room and John is sprawled out on the floor bawling.  I hurt my teeth he says.  So i say the best thing for that is going to bed.  Let's get you some ice and to bed we go. 

Alas- mommy forgot to give her son a snack before bed - bad mommy.  I bring him some goldfish he tries to eat one and screams out in pain "it hurts mommy - it hurts"  Well put the ice on it John and go to sleep- He was out within minutes. 

Get up this morning at 6:30 to get him ready for school.  He wants toast for breakfast (i completely forgot about the sore teeth).  he takes a bite and complains again...CRAP - Mommy I am too sore to go to school- He loves school- i know something is definitely wrong with little man.  So i tried calling the dentist, since i have an appointment for Laura at 9:30 - i decided to go to emerge.  Get there, doctor tells us to see the dentist as he doesn't see anything wrong.  Went to the dentist at 1:30 - dentist says he probably bruised his gums and jaw- should be fine as he doesn't see anything wrong.   So now he missed a day of school - all i can think of is when my family went to Florida when i was in grade 6 or 7.  We were at the bank during school hours and my sister didn't want to go in. My mom asked her why  " because i don't want them to think i am a hooker!" (instead of playing hookie)

So yeah- i dont have much to say today- but i have been writting everyday - My husband is sick, my daughter is sick, my son was sick last week and I had a migrane almost all weekend.  This sucks- but at least it's now and not on the weekend when Matt starts the 4000 km journey with his dad. 

Kids are having lunch, i had my friend's kid again today- he's not feeling good and was crying most of the time...i got him to sleep and all was peaceful! :)  at the same time the kids were being awsome!  It's really happeneing- i can't believe it- almost 1 week left to go SCARY QUICK!!

Looking at the week ahead I feel quite overwhelmed, as i didn't pack like i wanted to yesterday-instead i slept all day trying to feel better.  I am hoping to have all the clothes folded tonight and will be able to pack tonight and just throw in things as i think of it this coming week.  We brought Matt's truck to the car dealership today to get a block heater and do some other stuff to it that is needed to go UP north....IT"S REALLY HAPPENING!!  in just over a week we will be out of the house. SCARY!!  Laura was coughing last night in her sleep but it didn't get any worse she actually seemed alot better today.

I called John's school to let them know his last day.  The secretary said that they will sure miss him and that many of the students and staff just love him. I don't know if i mentioned it before but he won't be attending school this year.  In Alberta the age is 5 (kindergarten- no jk) so the school does offer playschool 3 mornings a week- we will be sending him to that.  And on top of that this school is the only one that has full days in the area!! how awesome is that.  When we toured it Matt and I loved it. It's in Falher, so the next town over which isn't even 15 minutes away.  He will have a shorter bus ride than he has now anyways!!! 

I am really looking forward to the new house.  NO MORE CARPET!!! woohoo!!

Yesterday was our party- happy to announce that i didnt cry.  However my nagging headache turned into a migrane around 8 pm - thank god everyone had gone by then.  Been in bed all day.  My father-in-law came over today- they packed up Matt's truck with the goodies they need to bring with them- Matt's bringing a blow up bed, with a sleeping bag for when he gets the house, shovels, snow suits.  He is also bringing stuff the movers cannot bring, propane tanks and alchool.  

This is Matt's last Sunday at this house- he's been amazing with the kids as i have been sleeping almost all day-  Stupid migrane-(thank god now it's a headache!)  Laura was woken up at 10 am she's very cuddly and not 100% either.  Gonna miss Matt for the 3 weeks he will be gone..but it will be great to be at the in-laws as I wont be totally alone. 

Matt and John are getting his corn ready for our Alberta house!    Yeah they are going to be spoilt, a sandbox and a corn pile for the kids to play with- i am sure we will be an envious house for all 4 year old boys! lol

Party

Alright, so today is our going away party at the in-laws.....i think i might cry!!! Gonna miss these family gatherings- it's always alot of fun when all the cousins, aunts and uncles, and kids get together on the Dale side.  However since Matt will be gone they are doing it today.  I still get both Christmas's - with the kids. 

My neigbours daugther is in the Santa Claus Parade this year. I think I will take John while Laura has her nap with daddy staying home with her - why should the 4 of us freeze (if it's cold- can't be any colder than where we are going!! lol) 

Yesterday I had a migrane for most of the day and the kids were great- We did go out and meet a friend and her daughter (and son) at burger King-  It was quite funny John was talking to another kid - My name is john- the other kid said Jonathan - John got mad- I am John no finn, just John not the finn, JOHN. The other mommy and I laughed.   John does talk about his friend Jonathan that moved away in July - we kinda relate that move to us moving.  He really misses his friend - and he will definately miss the ones he has here- Specially his wife to be.  She informed us that we will talk alot on the computer when we move away.  I said definately!

Packing up

Yesterday my husband informed me that we will be out of the house on the 30th.  Which is a little sooner than I thought.  I thought maybe 1 more week!  But it does make sense as we would like the stuff to be delivered while he's there and not have to arrange for someone to be there during the holidays. 

Also i have been told that the van that is being shipped from Sudbury cannot have anything in it.  Which totally threw me off my game.  I was hopping to pack all the Christmas presents and extra clothes and stuff from the month we wont have a house.  Oh well at least the houses we will be going to (my in-laws and my parents) already have lots of toys.  So I won't have to pack that!!  I am officially starting to freak out!  Hope to get packed this weekend so if i forget anything i can get it before its all boxed up!

PS I hate migraines! - at least its going away finally

Stress???

Yesterday I wasn't sure if my son would last all day at school.  He's been coughing and his voice sounds hoarse.  But he's not complaining of a sore throat.  He's been going to bed great at night no fighting...i think he's exhausted.  However we have already had quite a few disagreements today.  He has a friend over and he's taking great care of him- and in a great mood!  Today we were on the phone with my mom and he asks "When we sell our log house can we move back here?"  My heart just broke.  I explained to him that when we move we wont be coming back to this house.  That the log house will be our new house.  Also i told him we were going to have a sandbox in the basement for him and his sister to play with.  Seemed to calm him down.  I think this move is not only stressing Mommy and Daddy but also the kids.  Why wouldn't it....Do any of you  have suggestions on how to make the transition easier?

Hubby will be leaving next Saturday and not coming back till the 17th.  I think we might be out of the house before he comes back.  Trying not to stress out because I know if I start i wont be able to stop.  There is no need to do so.  Let's enjoy the remaining days here in Tillsonburg, lets go to playgroups, lets go to friends houses, let's not worry about this house so much.  When the movers come to pack up they do! Until then it's all about spending time as a family as much as we can, because we sure will miss Daddy (and his calming influence!)

This and that and my friend's Cat

So last night I didn't sleep much, kept thinking about this and that, and my friend's cat.  The this and that is What the heck do i pack for at least 2 weeks that will fit in a suitcase for me and the kids...the that is hopefully the movers can have everything at the house when we get there.  We will deal!!!!

Went to playgroup with little miss this morning- I was tired of staying in the house - since that's all i did for the last 2 days. She's making friends with a little girl a couple months younger than Laura....they are so cute together. 

John has a weak voice....but he's not in a good mood and went to school- i think he will test everyone he can today- i sure hope to see his wonderful smile when he gets off the bus.  Mommy is going to have a nap when little Miss goes to sleep.

Last night my friend's husband messaged me to see if i cut the ribbon off the balloons my kids had this weekend at their place.  Unfortunately i didn't.  my friend went to the emerge vet yesterday with their cat :(  He's been on my mind allot today- I hope Lime is OK :(

Forever Friends

It’s been a couple lazy days, in 2 weeks we were at home for 2 days.  We went to Grande Prairie Alberta, and then to visit my great friends near Lancaster Pennsylvania.  I babysat a different kid both mornings for my friend.  Yesterday was her oldest girl and today her little baby boy.  My kids are quite intrigued with him.  John wanted him to sit with him- baby wouldn’t stop smiling.  Laura was doing silly  dances t make him laugh.  Now I am getting my cuddles in.

It’s making me think of all the friends I have made here in the 3 years we have lived in Tillsonburg.  I have been so blessed to have met all of you.  We will miss all of you so much….you will always hold a special place in our hearts.  It’s pretty awesome the technology these days.  We can stay in touch on Facebook, Skype and by email.  Always know that I here for all of you.

Our New Life

Last week, at this time we were flying back from the Grande Prairie, Alberta airport.  My husband, kids and I had just spent a week travelling around northern Alberta to see if we would like to live out there.  Turns out it's better than we expected.  Tuesday hubby signed the offer.....this is the start of our new adventure, away from our friends and family- who we will all miss tremendously. 

We have put an offer on a house and now just waiting on a date for a home inspection.  If all goes well we get it December 9th.  Hubby will be leaving next weekend with his dad to drive to McLennan.  He will fly back Dec 17th- just in time to go to Great Wolf Lodge and for the Christmas festivities.  It will be a long 3 weeks but I am just not ready to leave Tillsonburg just yet.  We fly out Dec 31st to ring in the new year in our new house.

The days till then will go flying by- with getting things ready for Christmas and the move.  This is a scary yet exciting time for us!!!